聰明老人幸福十誡 5.39.217.77* x* n+ S' f ]; o2 r6 I
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“Ten taboos to happiness” for the intelligent aged persons tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb$ K5 `$ R/ T! [! T3 X
" z# G0 E8 d+ ^6 X( S! u一、不要再替成年子女操心，才不會碎碎唸。 ' e6 d; y. b L, P4 @1 C
Don’t be concerned about adult children any more, otherwise, cannot stop the annoying chatters. tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb% T. E/ H3 ^* ~* [, r- j2 j m
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二、不要再將成年子女當成未成年來「監護」，以免顧人怨。 5.39.217.77- F( W! a5 ~' Z9 p: Q
Don’t regard the adult children as of under age and serve as a guardian for them, so to avoid incurring complaints.
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三、不必事事都「非知道不可」，尊重已成年子女的隱私權、自主權。 5.39.217.77$ J% r. B, @) a) S8 l! E- i
No necessary to know everything, pay respect to the privacy and the right of decision-making of adult children. TVBNOW 含有熱門話題，最新最快電視，軟體，遊戲，電影，動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。9 F' x- g; P& t' R% ?
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四、不要再以兒、孫為生活重心，尋找自己的園地，才不致天天望穿秋水。 3 b4 V6 F$ q) u4 [& k. W
Don’t regard children and grandchildren as a center of life, look for personal social circles, so to avoid trapping yourself in the dilemma of anxious expectation and disappointment daily. TVBNOW 含有熱門話題，最新最快電視，軟體，遊戲，電影，動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。. T" V9 W" T2 Y$ ^7 R
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五、不要逢人就訴苦，寧可寫作、畫畫、練功、唱歌,以藝術、創作昇華情緒。
8 k; T! T) v' ~% W; I- z) cRaise a habit of writing, painting, exercising, singing to sublime your mood by arts and creation rather than complain to people coming across. 6 l) q5 t6 z& `5 H. z
* y) i$ T+ l+ _0 D: L# E六、不要凡事抱怨，多欣賞、感謝別人為取悅你所做的努力。
* w) f1 G" K9 A$ ftvb now,tvbnow,bttvbMore admiration, less complaints and appreciate what other people have done for pleasing you. 5.39.217.77$ O# x( `* G1 o6 \
4 P" v9 W' c! V2 j) C5.39.217.77七、不要因孫輩和子女媳婿爭執衝突，這樣只會惡性循環，害了你的孫輩。
6 `0 B$ j5 c' h9 N! @, F1 ZDon’t involve in the dispute between grandchildren and adult children, this act just causes adverse effects in a bad circle and hurt your grandchildren. TVBNOW 含有熱門話題，最新最快電視，軟體，遊戲，電影，動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。- S, d6 W6 |+ p' G
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八、不要因病痛而唉唉叫，有病要治病，領了藥要服藥，治不好的要忍耐。 5.39.217.776 X1 ` x" g7 K& E* a
Don’t cry over sickness, just go to see a doctor and take the necessary medical pills as prescribed, and be patient if failed to cure. tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb3 p T, w4 K: b7 G6 Z
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九、不要疑心病太重，要感激還願意留在你身邊的人，免得最後連他也走了！ 5.39.217.77! V/ R/ o' b* [* S
Don’t be skeptical to others too much, be grateful to the person who left around you, otherwise, he will go away from you too eventually.
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十、要多多親近神，有堅定的信仰，對未來抱著開心、樂觀的態度。
1 x6 ?7 T' c2 b/ b5.39.217.77Participate in religious activities often, be stick to belief and take pleasant, optimistic attitudes toward the future.
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5 I& w$ N N7 v如果以上十點，每一點是十分，祝福各位聰明的老人，都能幸福一百分。
/ P) @! J( l6 `1 ?- x, P1 Z' FIf each item of these ten taboos above counts a score of ten, wish you all so intelligent to get a lucky one hundred. |
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