聰明老人幸福十誡
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“Ten taboos to happiness” for the intelligent aged persons
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一、不要再替成年子女操心，才不會碎碎唸。 5.39.217.77" i' B8 c8 l9 N* {) } n
Don’t be concerned about adult children any more, otherwise, cannot stop the annoying chatters. 公仔箱論壇" s* a2 u# e* Y+ ~, s5 P
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二、不要再將成年子女當成未成年來「監護」，以免顧人怨。 tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb: M- e5 j) K7 I
Don’t regard the adult children as of under age and serve as a guardian for them, so to avoid incurring complaints.
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! `+ I* \0 Z) r/ p, B. Z+ z2 r5.39.217.77三、不必事事都「非知道不可」，尊重已成年子女的隱私權、自主權。
1 s# B. F8 O4 h7 w" `No necessary to know everything, pay respect to the privacy and the right of decision-making of adult children.
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0 `. K2 r8 F( k8 I) X& z5.39.217.77四、不要再以兒、孫為生活重心，尋找自己的園地，才不致天天望穿秋水。 5.39.217.77. n4 Y3 x$ v2 V$ q- F3 ?+ R
Don’t regard children and grandchildren as a center of life, look for personal social circles, so to avoid trapping yourself in the dilemma of anxious expectation and disappointment daily.
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五、不要逢人就訴苦，寧可寫作、畫畫、練功、唱歌,以藝術、創作昇華情緒。 tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb, i/ l+ @( N. I+ O [2 t; K
Raise a habit of writing, painting, exercising, singing to sublime your mood by arts and creation rather than complain to people coming across. tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb; G z* [: x" W! j, v
9 f& J: n: T5 s2 X& m* J0 ?六、不要凡事抱怨，多欣賞、感謝別人為取悅你所做的努力。
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. o9 B8 e; E, |1 g, d! S6 c# Y1 Q& {5.39.217.77七、不要因孫輩和子女媳婿爭執衝突，這樣只會惡性循環，害了你的孫輩。 公仔箱論壇' r. o$ V! `" L: Z' I* I% Q
Don’t involve in the dispute between grandchildren and adult children, this act just causes adverse effects in a bad circle and hurt your grandchildren.
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八、不要因病痛而唉唉叫，有病要治病，領了藥要服藥，治不好的要忍耐。
& r! [) s8 K0 k& fDon’t cry over sickness, just go to see a doctor and take the necessary medical pills as prescribed, and be patient if failed to cure.
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九、不要疑心病太重，要感激還願意留在你身邊的人，免得最後連他也走了！
) r& D# Q' c. X; m1 sDon’t be skeptical to others too much, be grateful to the person who left around you, otherwise, he will go away from you too eventually.
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十、要多多親近神，有堅定的信仰，對未來抱著開心、樂觀的態度。 : A. }! f% A! }! Z7 |/ w$ u- J
Participate in religious activities often, be stick to belief and take pleasant, optimistic attitudes toward the future.
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% z; r% v2 `8 g0 U如果以上十點，每一點是十分，祝福各位聰明的老人，都能幸福一百分。
5 n8 v% N A; V& d8 r' V9 e* ZIf each item of these ten taboos above counts a score of ten, wish you all so intelligent to get a lucky one hundred. |
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