i'm a man and let me tell you like a man. it's hard to get over the first love. i can personally attest to it. i've been happily married with children for years now. i'm not going to tell you how long. just long.6 ]3 E+ A) W! ~4 k% ^2 i2 I1 j
' l+ ^ {6 Q+ L. U8 ytvb now,tvbnow,bttvbi love my wife, my kids and my family. but deep in my mind, i still remember the girl i fell in love for the first time. but i always remember one thing. there should be line drawn between reality and fantasy.
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) c1 I* C# Q6 u' R) j; gtvb now,tvbnow,bttvbfor me reality is very real and a fantasy is just a bubble. as long as you don't let your bubble inflates too large, it won't burst and you can always have it.
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) K9 J( Y- Z. Z+ ^4 m公仔箱論壇if a married man let his fantasy get out f hand, it could turn into a disaster -- just like the Hindenburg. |