i'm a man and let me tell you like a man. it's hard to get over the first love. i can personally attest to it. i've been happily married with children for years now. i'm not going to tell you how long. just long.1 `, b+ o7 x% i. V
7 o _% q4 d/ B8 v# \: xi love my wife, my kids and my family. but deep in my mind, i still remember the girl i fell in love for the first time. but i always remember one thing. there should be line drawn between reality and fantasy.
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, R2 d# I i" z3 x1 o: l公仔箱論壇for me reality is very real and a fantasy is just a bubble. as long as you don't let your bubble inflates too large, it won't burst and you can always have it.
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% @, |/ r5 f3 x, s% \5 e0 C" s- zif a married man let his fantasy get out f hand, it could turn into a disaster -- just like the Hindenburg. |