i'm a man and let me tell you like a man. it's hard to get over the first love. i can personally attest to it. i've been happily married with children for years now. i'm not going to tell you how long. just long.5.39.217.77:88988 s: s- v( x3 Q
a7 {! s. y" H) Ui love my wife, my kids and my family. but deep in my mind, i still remember the girl i fell in love for the first time. but i always remember one thing. there should be line drawn between reality and fantasy. & w% q2 @5 H+ m4 [1 c4 I% C
. `* l- y7 N2 M) o1 e5.39.217.77:8898for me reality is very real and a fantasy is just a bubble. as long as you don't let your bubble inflates too large, it won't burst and you can always have it. ( _- ^# v6 d* Z& F$ u4 p/ D0 A
. x4 L1 T9 r' R" f0 O公仔箱論壇if a married man let his fantasy get out f hand, it could turn into a disaster -- just like the Hindenburg. |