明報專訊】性侵犯把人的自尊及自信摧,令受害人陷入恥辱、驚恐、悲憤和自疚之中。如果受害者是在童年被侵犯,傷口可能埋藏得更深,形成終身不能磨滅的傷痕,傷口甚至讓受害人「不察覺」,但記憶隨年月變成一個「心魔」,不時來偷襲,在不知不覺間,影響孩子日後自我形象、價值觀、人際關係、性生活及婚姻關係。tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb" p. `: X ^! C2 D$ _( i
3 V- W+ F8 i7 m精神科專科醫生林中鍵接觸過不少病人,他們大多因受各種情緒病困擾而求診,往事已過去;她不知道,這些藏在心底深處的傷口,一直是她生活的障礙。 4 }3 I+ g; l7 M: Y2 H ' m4 b9 b2 c4 V0 V* G% ?% q$ W 「其實,有一些曾受性侵犯的受害者,都選擇把不快記憶收藏,麻木自己的感覺。她們甚至不知道,過往的陰影,一直如影隨形的影響她。」# p( V' | g3 }* ]+ W" S. c8 M3 E0 Q* L5 A
i very agree with ur point...but in fact, now our social alr in sick...not just harm our ethical value, further influence also included our soul, and self-confidence... ( o" _( ^# E: z5 K8 g# z0 gbe aware everyone and careful...especially girls.作者: jarita123 時間: 2008-6-20 07:44 PM
i had very bad history for my child, i also think is follow for my live too, however i married but i think not happy for family life too作者: saturday 時間: 2008-6-21 11:33 AM