[疑難求助] 你曾經是第三者嗎?

jennchl

請問有誰曾經第三者?  我愛上了一個已有女朋友的男人.
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和他做了好朋友三年, 最近大家才對大家表白, 才知道大家已經一直喜歡對方但沒有表白.
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我們深愛著對方, 可惜不知道應該怎麼辦, 他跟他的女朋友已經十三年了, 並且是同居, 我不是很樂觀, 有時候真的很想要他認真的選擇和決定, 可是我非常害怕聽到一個不想聽的答案, 所以遲遲都沒有問.6 v8 e( s# W1 v* ^' r- B" h
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以前也會和他的女朋友大家成群的出去, 現在因為他的女朋友感覺到我和這男人的感覺, 所以她很討厭我, 並要這男人跟我斷絕來往.  現在我們只能用有限的時間通通電話和吃飯. 他很失落, 他說他很害怕失去我, 我亦很害怕失去他.
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請問大家, 我做錯了, 是否應該退出? 還是主動爭取?

jennchl

any suggestions?

guandesu

愛情沒有對錯,或許只有愛錯

十年一剑

给他限定一个时间，做出选择。

jennchl

I'm so scared of hearing the NO answer....

icceti

are you making a choice or are you letting him make the decision?
6 s. l1 M" z* M4 `9 T7 p5.39.217.77:8898if you truly do not want to leave him then fight.9 l, [% K6 f2 L! _' @+ l* |
at least give it a try.  公仔箱論壇4 M  S7 G% a) N+ Y$ V) s6 N+ x
but you can't say after a few years of being with you, he won't fall in love with someone else.
1 s. k& L' W6 ~) p6 k" q/ L: C公仔箱論壇if you are letting him decide, then give yourself a time limit so you won't be waiting for him for the rest of your life without an answer.
, y8 _" g3 w1 \, t) {' U" o3 V6 `a no is better than none.  you'll suffer even more watching them get married, have kids and you are alone by yourself.
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tommyjai

i have hear someone told that
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u should reject before it rejects u

xiehuoli

建议你退出吧

beckham07sky

Ask him to make a decision.
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7 Q: I2 B0 {" e, `4 X3 |1 rIf not, i think you better leave this self-fish man. Don't love a man not care to your feeling.
9 \2 H/ u7 v' a5 e7 d+ pYOU MUST THINK TO YOUR FURTURE.
1 R$ E* Q% _' n, B2 CPlease don't as stupid as me before.
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dream1972

天下何处无“杂草”？何必和人争？十三年的感情，他今天能这样对他目前的女朋友，难保他十三年后“主角”换你当了，所以请三思。。。

xxx728

给他限定一个时间，做出选择。
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一針見血i agree with that公仔箱論壇( w" c2 t+ p" z
要理性,不要沉溺於悲劇主角的感覺啊!

kathy1234

其实我也和你一样~也是喜欢一个有女友了的男生~我每次听到他说他和女友出去~或陪女友而没找我~我听到会很失落~
2 h' h) @7 L: |8 `; b6 z9 P/ e1 G2 }tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb但是毕竟我不是他的谁~他既然有女友了~就应该祝福他~
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- E* i; h0 ]* T% ]. t5.39.217.77:8898你好好想吧~如果真的喜欢他~不一定要和他一起~可以祝福他啊~
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勇敢点！~~