i'm a man and let me tell you like a man. it's hard to get over the first love. i can personally attest to it. i've been happily married with children for years now. i'm not going to tell you how long. just long.5.39.217.77:8898( ~& p) f y8 w' F/ b3 P) s
$ X# ^3 A. l r5.39.217.77:8898i love my wife, my kids and my family. but deep in my mind, i still remember the girl i fell in love for the first time. but i always remember one thing. there should be line drawn between reality and fantasy.
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for me reality is very real and a fantasy is just a bubble. as long as you don't let your bubble inflates too large, it won't burst and you can always have it. 公仔箱論壇% h2 r! e' W' B9 {% U) N' j4 J- ~6 {
. y0 ^1 L# R9 `( b4 u" gif a married man let his fantasy get out f hand, it could turn into a disaster -- just like the Hindenburg. |