聰明老人幸福十誡 公仔箱論壇2 u: P# K3 E3 _) S
/ m1 s" P% O* a1 `* e w0 _9 k5.39.217.77:8898“Ten taboos to happiness” for the intelligent aged persons 公仔箱論壇; m6 s s/ n5 b
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一、不要再替成年子女操心,才不會碎碎唸。
- P. {( P/ N4 r( yDon’t be concerned about adult children any more, otherwise, cannot stop the annoying chatters.
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, H+ p. ]& i8 g公仔箱論壇二、不要再將成年子女當成未成年來「監護」,以免顧人怨。
, k) x5 A. x1 w8 M. [5.39.217.77:8898Don’t regard the adult children as of under age and serve as a guardian for them, so to avoid incurring complaints.
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三、不必事事都「非知道不可」,尊重已成年子女的隱私權、自主權。
! B7 \ j! _! t7 W' _No necessary to know everything, pay respect to the privacy and the right of decision-making of adult children.
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四、不要再以兒、孫為生活重心,尋找自己的園地,才不致天天望穿秋水。 TVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。+ E) I0 r* L, B8 |
Don’t regard children and grandchildren as a center of life, look for personal social circles, so to avoid trapping yourself in the dilemma of anxious expectation and disappointment daily.
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L" ? h7 z! u4 g4 d( a2 N五、不要逢人就訴苦,寧可寫作、畫畫、練功、唱歌,以藝術、創作昇華情緒。
% G/ x; s; O. Y6 t5 |( ^3 i公仔箱論壇Raise a habit of writing, painting, exercising, singing to sublime your mood by arts and creation rather than complain to people coming across.
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六、不要凡事抱怨,多欣賞、感謝別人為取悅你所做的努力。
! c: F4 _8 _: u: C& O5.39.217.77:8898More admiration, less complaints and appreciate what other people have done for pleasing you.
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七、不要因孫輩和子女媳婿爭執衝突,這樣只會惡性循環,害了你的孫輩。 8 O0 k/ U( q7 @! y
Don’t involve in the dispute between grandchildren and adult children, this act just causes adverse effects in a bad circle and hurt your grandchildren.
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) w: c5 d+ g* k5.39.217.77:8898八、不要因病痛而唉唉叫,有病要治病,領了藥要服藥,治不好的要忍耐。
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九、不要疑心病太重,要感激還願意留在你身邊的人,免得最後連他也走了!
/ J. N3 o7 w' J1 y( y* A公仔箱論壇Don’t be skeptical to others too much, be grateful to the person who left around you, otherwise, he will go away from you too eventually. TVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。+ M+ ?. `. {! C1 J3 w; h$ {
' a& T5 X; ^, d; a/ T) f5 E十、要多多親近神,有堅定的信仰,對未來抱著開心、樂觀的態度。 ( E) j S; Z+ z7 R
Participate in religious activities often, be stick to belief and take pleasant, optimistic attitudes toward the future.
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如果以上十點,每一點是十分,祝福各位聰明的老人,都能幸福一百分。 公仔箱論壇( L. G/ V$ M# z' F3 U
If each item of these ten taboos above counts a score of ten, wish you all so intelligent to get a lucky one hundred. |