i'm a man and let me tell you like a man. it's hard to get over the first love. i can personally attest to it. i've been happily married with children for years now. i'm not going to tell you how long. just long.
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i love my wife, my kids and my family. but deep in my mind, i still remember the girl i fell in love for the first time. but i always remember one thing. there should be line drawn between reality and fantasy. 7 Q- s0 k0 g3 j- ]6 h& p* Q* [
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for me reality is very real and a fantasy is just a bubble. as long as you don't let your bubble inflates too large, it won't burst and you can always have it. 9 `8 S+ W7 x7 \# D/ g9 g' X& m
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if a married man let his fantasy get out f hand, it could turn into a disaster -- just like the Hindenburg. |