i'm a man and let me tell you like a man. it's hard to get over the first love. i can personally attest to it. i've been happily married with children for years now. i'm not going to tell you how long. just long./ s; r! j" s3 a. y/ h& ?6 Q5 X2 t1 C
5.39.217.77/ T) M3 D% ^+ {
i love my wife, my kids and my family. but deep in my mind, i still remember the girl i fell in love for the first time. but i always remember one thing. there should be line drawn between reality and fantasy. 5.39.217.77% c+ t4 v% X2 {! v- C. ^) B' Q
: ~" @+ i; n- O
for me reality is very real and a fantasy is just a bubble. as long as you don't let your bubble inflates too large, it won't burst and you can always have it. 0 m' G, g) V* V* r- t3 K
% i3 X0 G( C1 \6 u7 e5 P3 o7 ~2 k
if a married man let his fantasy get out f hand, it could turn into a disaster -- just like the Hindenburg. |