i'm a man and let me tell you like a man. it's hard to get over the first love. i can personally attest to it. i've been happily married with children for years now. i'm not going to tell you how long. just long.* s7 j$ K* e- U X0 \& G
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i love my wife, my kids and my family. but deep in my mind, i still remember the girl i fell in love for the first time. but i always remember one thing. there should be line drawn between reality and fantasy. 公仔箱論壇' F3 o: _" h4 c3 z
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for me reality is very real and a fantasy is just a bubble. as long as you don't let your bubble inflates too large, it won't burst and you can always have it.
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3 S+ A5 \5 S4 y5 X) qif a married man let his fantasy get out f hand, it could turn into a disaster -- just like the Hindenburg. |