i'm a man and let me tell you like a man. it's hard to get over the first love. i can personally attest to it. i've been happily married with children for years now. i'm not going to tell you how long. just long.tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb5 z# _( I# X5 u, z0 t0 q
/ x7 e8 ^# P0 Gtvb now,tvbnow,bttvbi love my wife, my kids and my family. but deep in my mind, i still remember the girl i fell in love for the first time. but i always remember one thing. there should be line drawn between reality and fantasy.
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if a married man let his fantasy get out f hand, it could turn into a disaster -- just like the Hindenburg. |