i'm a man and let me tell you like a man. it's hard to get over the first love. i can personally attest to it. i've been happily married with children for years now. i'm not going to tell you how long. just long.5.39.217.77# R7 d: S: I( D( [" E
+ \& B+ Q' E$ b$ b; l, r h2 Hi love my wife, my kids and my family. but deep in my mind, i still remember the girl i fell in love for the first time. but i always remember one thing. there should be line drawn between reality and fantasy. + W7 d$ W0 @& O7 t% C: L
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if a married man let his fantasy get out f hand, it could turn into a disaster -- just like the Hindenburg. |