i'm a man and let me tell you like a man. it's hard to get over the first love. i can personally attest to it. i've been happily married with children for years now. i'm not going to tell you how long. just long.
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) U. G# {+ h! i0 z' o5.39.217.77i love my wife, my kids and my family. but deep in my mind, i still remember the girl i fell in love for the first time. but i always remember one thing. there should be line drawn between reality and fantasy. $ W9 D( e0 P) n+ W
+ F4 G/ s3 b( q$ V Ltvb now,tvbnow,bttvbfor me reality is very real and a fantasy is just a bubble. as long as you don't let your bubble inflates too large, it won't burst and you can always have it. % Y Y$ n; _6 j6 W/ N p
" X7 a' a9 c' G* r公仔箱論壇if a married man let his fantasy get out f hand, it could turn into a disaster -- just like the Hindenburg. |