0 j. K; s h5 Q ]公仔箱論壇我們深愛著對方, 可惜不知道應該怎麼辦, 他跟他的女朋友已經十三年了, 並且是同居, 我不是很樂觀, 有時候真的很想要他認真的選擇和決定, 可是我非常害怕聽到一個不想聽的答案, 所以遲遲都沒有問.5.39.217.77& m, R2 j" [ L5 W h( l
+ K* j- U) x+ `) u% X2 h# r5.39.217.77以前也會和他的女朋友大家成群的出去, 現在因為他的女朋友感覺到我和這男人的感覺, 所以她很討厭我, 並要這男人跟我斷絕來往. 現在我們只能用有限的時間通通電話和吃飯. 他很失落, 他說他很害怕失去我, 我亦很害怕失去他.1 r2 `' p o: ^* l: M7 c. b+ a. K
any suggestions?作者: guandesu 時間: 2009-4-9 08:52 AM
愛情沒有對錯,或許只有愛錯作者: 十年一剑 時間: 2009-4-10 08:18 PM
给他限定一个时间，做出选择。作者: jennchl 時間: 2009-4-11 09:39 AM
I'm so scared of hearing the NO answer....作者: icceti 時間: 2009-4-11 01:55 PM
are you making a choice or are you letting him make the decision? # ^' A& l) Y3 Z1 f8 n& \0 o# Tif you truly do not want to leave him then fight. 1 i0 c- h, Y& E" pat least give it a try. / {* m/ n: T5 ^) \, G5 m7 a) q' Ibut you can't say after a few years of being with you, he won't fall in love with someone else.tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb& j4 V9 I! z" I4 z0 T0 A. {8 v
if you are letting him decide, then give yourself a time limit so you won't be waiting for him for the rest of your life without an answer. & ?, Z$ ]; Z) X5 o4 P) @5.39.217.77a no is better than none. you'll suffer even more watching them get married, have kids and you are alone by yourself. ! \( c% f0 \" Y! V1 ytvb now,tvbnow,bttvb5 H! i; \8 u. w$ a! b+ p
[ 本帖最後由 icceti 於 2009-4-11 01:01 AM 編輯 ]作者: tommyjai 時間: 2009-4-12 08:44 PM
i have hear someone told that & }4 B! \/ \8 k1 p, ]5 @; S8 Mtvb now,tvbnow,bttvbif u scare to get reject公仔箱論壇0 |( q: j" T6 O7 Y- a# J% w+ @
u should reject before it rejects u作者: xiehuoli 時間: 2009-4-13 03:53 PM
建议你退出吧作者: beckham07sky 時間: 2009-5-15 08:59 PM
Ask him to make a decision.5.39.217.77! `: L3 K7 t5 L) P, Z7 A
If he really care about lost you, he must do that.tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb# `/ b8 h' C; E# ]) Z9 [
If not, i think you better leave this self-fish man. Don't love a man not care to your feeling.tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb# P3 g# [, E" Z
YOU MUST THINK TO YOUR FURTURE. ! E. r1 C- d* g7 {! r7 l5 _# rtvb now,tvbnow,bttvbPlease don't as stupid as me before. 5 a, }0 ]5 u G4 t7 C公仔箱論壇GOOD LUCK!!作者: dream1972 時間: 2009-5-16 11:37 AM
，所以请三思。。。
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