你是否已经结婚?站在女人的角度 你说的都是正确的;但是站在一个男人的立场 又太多无奈 ... 那么就让女人工作,让男人也去学习吧作者: alcheng0081 時間: 2009-3-3 07:09 AM
I understand your point of view, however, do you think you look at the matter only from the stand-point of female, those house wives in the story. 5.39.217.770 t& [3 J9 Z/ M* g! ]# [' P
9 D- k3 [! ]* e' R5 R5.39.217.77I agree female have to give out and give up almost their whole life to the family and kids, but isn't the husband the same?tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb3 F- o9 g+ _6 d
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If you are the only person who is financially supporting the family, do you know how much pressure and worry you are facing???: |' f3 `% P2 P ^( e: \# s0 U
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Relatively, house wives also facing problem and pressure such as looking after the kids and have to make sure everything runs properly in the house, I say both husband and wife are facing the same level of pressure, but just different kind. 9 \3 N, U9 [0 C$ j; m* ]1 E% c7 CTVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。 " \3 A2 Y* P/ P' R- ~+ tI actually feel sorry for the husbands in this story, when they are working so hard and try to give the best support to the family, they even support their wife to upgrade their education, wihch cost a big portion from the income, in exchange, what they got in return is being looked-down by their wife. What a shame!!! z& Z7 o% u& J5 rTVBNOW 含有熱門話題,最新最快電視,軟體,遊戲,電影,動漫及日常生活及興趣交流等資訊。5.39.217.77) ]2 ?; _4 _6 n
Well, from another way of thinking, I think it is good for them to devoice, since their wife does not really love them once they think there's a ''better world'' out there. 4 u; ?# v- u( U* g / f9 f5 ]8 N) A5 K# @) B: EIf you think your partner, whether it's your husband or your wife, is not good enough, or he/ she is going backward, you don't just leave him/ her, you'll find a way to improve him, to improve the relationship. 1 s- j/ l- r6 L / v$ E2 }& }# P2 \tvb now,tvbnow,bttvbTHIS IS HOW YOU LOVE SOMEONE AND KEEP THE RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY. * X8 l) h* r; S9 n! j2 F公仔箱論壇) f l( T/ b* N7 g6 l6 E6 E4 b
Not just leave them in-responsibly like this and find something you think is better. - y: _: m: _4 T6 {5 p/ h; ~" A5.39.217.77 8 A i& |8 @. e+ p9 ?5.39.217.77[ 本帖最後由 alcheng0081 於 2009-3-3 07:16 AM 編輯 ]