$ [( W3 {0 q N$ c' `5.39.217.77“Ten taboos to happiness” for the intelligent aged persons 7 C% O4 I9 \" U+ s( d5 ~公仔箱論壇1 Y' v2 c$ S2 y3 a. a Y
一、不要再替成年子女操心，才不會碎碎唸。 7 k! Y/ z4 K" Qtvb now,tvbnow,bttvbDon’t be concerned about adult children any more, otherwise, cannot stop the annoying chatters. 5.39.217.77- N. k" S0 [' Z6 T) Q! J2 w# l7 t
* @$ p5 D7 H! Etvb now,tvbnow,bttvb二、不要再將成年子女當成未成年來「監護」，以免顧人怨。 9 j4 J# [/ Y i* n! o3 ?* f+ @( Y J5.39.217.77Don’t regard the adult children as of under age and serve as a guardian for them, so to avoid incurring complaints. 3 N. ]: y9 {' L. Y& D0 C2 z9 b$ F2 [2 [$ e7 r5.39.217.77公仔箱論壇3 h* | X* ?' _8 ]2 Y+ f+ z0 R
三、不必事事都「非知道不可」，尊重已成年子女的隱私權、自主權。 ' j3 M ~# c1 M7 x' \
No necessary to know everything, pay respect to the privacy and the right of decision-making of adult children. . D2 w7 H5 [0 Q ( t; k8 _* a# ^' o: ]公仔箱論壇四、不要再以兒、孫為生活重心，尋找自己的園地，才不致天天望穿秋水。 ( h% M1 x5 I* P+ \Don’t regard children and grandchildren as a center of life, look for personal social circles, so to avoid trapping yourself in the dilemma of anxious expectation and disappointment daily. 公仔箱論壇4 O+ D1 S6 O# i1 R1 s# J
) p; T$ | Z/ G. D5 k4 H8 qtvb now,tvbnow,bttvb五、不要逢人就訴苦，寧可寫作、畫畫、練功、唱歌,以藝術、創作昇華情緒。 ( ]6 H1 n: z$ F( J" D9 B/ Q5.39.217.77Raise a habit of writing, painting, exercising, singing to sublime your mood by arts and creation rather than complain to people coming across. 0 o) @2 v7 r1 P8 O8 i- |) x( ^5.39.217.772 L( K7 d* o+ ~7 U* ]; A9 R4 i
六、不要凡事抱怨，多欣賞、感謝別人為取悅你所做的努力。 ) ^: x8 \* n6 v7 i
More admiration, less complaints and appreciate what other people have done for pleasing you. 5.39.217.77. w6 x* s6 N) I. d& W I6 i
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七、不要因孫輩和子女媳婿爭執衝突，這樣只會惡性循環，害了你的孫輩。 8 f0 P2 ^) G, R% k8 M/ `+ f
Don’t involve in the dispute between grandchildren and adult children, this act just causes adverse effects in a bad circle and hurt your grandchildren. k, g, S0 J. Y) g: c0 W, ~* j公仔箱論壇5.39.217.77) |7 d8 `( U# A0 \- ~. |, u
八、不要因病痛而唉唉叫，有病要治病，領了藥要服藥，治不好的要忍耐。 tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb' Y1 b% y6 ?3 d$ b2 r
Don’t cry over sickness, just go to see a doctor and take the necessary medical pills as prescribed, and be patient if failed to cure. 7 a* u$ ~. H0 W/ }公仔箱論壇5 d2 { e- b6 h" f8 d. b
九、不要疑心病太重，要感激還願意留在你身邊的人，免得最後連他也走了！ 0 W) I5 Y2 c& pDon’t be skeptical to others too much, be grateful to the person who left around you, otherwise, he will go away from you too eventually. $ l# P2 F. b2 }7 `8 ?tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb# }6 g$ _6 h0 b6 O; x
十、要多多親近神，有堅定的信仰，對未來抱著開心、樂觀的態度。 + z) ~; o6 b# G3 u4 O* i0 N# V8 f
Participate in religious activities often, be stick to belief and take pleasant, optimistic attitudes toward the future. # H9 L8 }. S" q/ g' m0 G- D+ `' L% {: ]9 _
, Z. |# T5 C# w r! [/ I3 u公仔箱論壇如果以上十點，每一點是十分，祝福各位聰明的老人，都能幸福一百分。 5 F. C" r" n0 ]3 f! }6 V/ }% n公仔箱論壇If each item of these ten taboos above counts a score of ten, wish you all so intelligent to get a lucky one hundred.
