i'm a man and let me tell you like a man. it's hard to get over the first love. i can personally attest to it. i've been happily married with children for years now. i'm not going to tell you how long. just long.tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb# u' m" ]6 {6 T! s, J) B- M
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i love my wife, my kids and my family. but deep in my mind, i still remember the girl i fell in love for the first time. but i always remember one thing. there should be line drawn between reality and fantasy.
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; t; t* p8 X6 S8 }# @: r# Q0 H( m5 |for me reality is very real and a fantasy is just a bubble. as long as you don't let your bubble inflates too large, it won't burst and you can always have it. $ y: G; z. f9 q' b
0 r% ~- H8 `5 z* z$ c公仔箱論壇if a married man let his fantasy get out f hand, it could turn into a disaster -- just like the Hindenburg. |