BF brought a girl back to home

vlei

My bf brought a girl back home one night after we had a hugh fight. They watched a movie. During the movie, the girl fell asleep. I wonder, what is he thinking? Why he would do that? He often said i cant trust him, but he did that kind of thing how can i trust him?
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miklaw111

妳之前認識/聽過那女孩嗎?

vlei

my bf and she are working in the same company. A month ago, bf went back to taiwan for a week because of his brother's wedding. The girl went to Taiwan also a week earlier than him. after he was back, i found out they went out and took really close picture. What i mean is their faces got touch and took several pictures and went out together around Taiwan. As he came back, he does not respect me as before and does not as close to me as before.

miklaw111

我諗妳要同佢傾下....
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因為男帶得女仔返屋企....仲要自己有女朋友....
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vlei

But he refused to talk to me, as i want to ask the girl he brought girl back home. Then he said he does not want to talk about it. then it is all sillence.

miklaw111

I thing your boyfriend dont love you anymore,and he wants you leave yourself  ,I guess

tangoNtiger

even it is really painful, but you have to make a right decision and not letting yourself to get hurt, if its meant to be yours, it will be, otherwise you have to learn to let go. you never know what's next out there and waiting for you, there always someone better and someone won't treat you like that. You have to love yourself in order to be loved by someone who really cherish you dear.
7 @2 S) j( n/ _5 w8 oThat's so obvious, your bf is struggling between you and the new girl. that must be something going wrong between you and him, and that's the reason why he had the intimacy going with that girl, if a person who really love his gf, he won't have the second thought, so maybe you can sit down and have a gentle conversation with him, if this relationship has to be end, then you should let go. No matter how hurt it is, time always heal the pain.

vlei

what about if he insists he and the girl has nothing to do with love. they are just friends. Mostly after fighting, he needs someone to beside, it just happens that that one is her.  That is what he said. And he thinks that it totally alright inviting a single girl back home late and let her overnight.  I dun understand why he thinks thats alright, Since as i mention how cute ohter guy is,, he will get mad.

vlei

what i am doing now is ,, try to not get as close to him as before.  cause one time he seem wants this relationship works,, but other time,, he just wants to argue again.