聰明老人幸福十誡 - Q5 [9 c, @' s3 m1 K5 ?1 i
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“Ten taboos to happiness” for the intelligent aged persons tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb# Y5 j2 D' v- H9 _; g
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一、不要再替成年子女操心，才不會碎碎唸。 5.39.217.77' W7 i; y) H6 H3 ]) s4 a
Don’t be concerned about adult children any more, otherwise, cannot stop the annoying chatters.
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* b3 r; ?) s4 p二、不要再將成年子女當成未成年來「監護」，以免顧人怨。 公仔箱論壇) ^% k" E6 l3 I6 i# O
Don’t regard the adult children as of under age and serve as a guardian for them, so to avoid incurring complaints.
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5 d6 l I( U& s3 K1 e ytvb now,tvbnow,bttvb三、不必事事都「非知道不可」，尊重已成年子女的隱私權、自主權。
' | H) h( F' n! U9 K) v4 V( rNo necessary to know everything, pay respect to the privacy and the right of decision-making of adult children. # ^$ E/ [5 c% \- q; [' [
4 }. D @' Y9 k7 |. f: C& u5.39.217.77四、不要再以兒、孫為生活重心，尋找自己的園地，才不致天天望穿秋水。 8 S5 _* g ]; V0 U) a8 t0 t& }4 F$ |+ \
Don’t regard children and grandchildren as a center of life, look for personal social circles, so to avoid trapping yourself in the dilemma of anxious expectation and disappointment daily. 5.39.217.77$ a: O1 V# n! v ~+ B$ B
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五、不要逢人就訴苦，寧可寫作、畫畫、練功、唱歌,以藝術、創作昇華情緒。 5.39.217.77% y3 y7 O0 W/ b, o( }$ |
Raise a habit of writing, painting, exercising, singing to sublime your mood by arts and creation rather than complain to people coming across. , k; C1 S) {/ {: i1 l
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六、不要凡事抱怨，多欣賞、感謝別人為取悅你所做的努力。
8 d: X2 |% V* u+ Atvb now,tvbnow,bttvbMore admiration, less complaints and appreciate what other people have done for pleasing you.
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七、不要因孫輩和子女媳婿爭執衝突，這樣只會惡性循環，害了你的孫輩。 5.39.217.776 [3 T6 G2 h5 c
Don’t involve in the dispute between grandchildren and adult children, this act just causes adverse effects in a bad circle and hurt your grandchildren.
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4 q" v Z% ?9 ?) a1 z) R, o E; Ttvb now,tvbnow,bttvb八、不要因病痛而唉唉叫，有病要治病，領了藥要服藥，治不好的要忍耐。
9 v% f: N8 q; L6 [5.39.217.77Don’t cry over sickness, just go to see a doctor and take the necessary medical pills as prescribed, and be patient if failed to cure.
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九、不要疑心病太重，要感激還願意留在你身邊的人，免得最後連他也走了！
$ d: K1 G( x+ S. M- S" O( c2 B公仔箱論壇Don’t be skeptical to others too much, be grateful to the person who left around you, otherwise, he will go away from you too eventually. 3 ^! z. C' s1 w2 S3 F# H1 |
. ]4 A- }) `3 k2 a" f( q9 B% K十、要多多親近神，有堅定的信仰，對未來抱著開心、樂觀的態度。 公仔箱論壇% d7 w4 @; G, ?5 p
Participate in religious activities often, be stick to belief and take pleasant, optimistic attitudes toward the future. tvb now,tvbnow,bttvb1 O7 y, [& }3 w0 c# m! C
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如果以上十點，每一點是十分，祝福各位聰明的老人，都能幸福一百分。 公仔箱論壇- Q, D% `& a' w: A
If each item of these ten taboos above counts a score of ten, wish you all so intelligent to get a lucky one hundred. |
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